South Korean star Park Seo-joon has shared rare and thoughtful insights into his views on marriage, revealing that while he once believed living alone would be enough, his perspective has gradually evolved with time and experience.
In a recent conversation with The Korea Times, the 37-year-old actor spoke candidly about his personal life, admitting that marriage is now something he wants to experience—ideally in his 40s.
“Marriage Is Something I Must Experience At Least Once”
Reflecting on his future, Park Seo-joon said he sees marriage as an important chapter he doesn’t want to miss.
“I definitely want to get married in my 40s. If I don’t do it, then I think I’ll end up living alone,” he shared, adding that this realisation didn’t come overnight.
The actor revealed that he once felt completely comfortable with the idea of living solo, but conversations with people around him slowly changed that outlook.
Advice That Changed His Perspective
Park Seo-joon recalled a particularly striking piece of advice he received from someone who is married—one that left a lasting impression on him.
He was told that life unfolds in stages. According to the advice, living alone is just Part 1. Marriage opens Part 2, while having a child marks Part 3. While each phase brings its own struggles, the emotional fulfillment that comes with marriage, he was told, is vastly different.
“The hardships are different, but the happiness you feel is a huge happiness—completely different from Part 1,” Seo-joon said. That idea, he admitted, sparked curiosity and made him reconsider what a full life could look like.
Guarded About His Private Life
Despite opening up about marriage in general terms, Park Seo-joon remains protective of his personal relationships. Over the years, his name has been linked to several dating rumours, including speculation in 2024 about a relationship with Lauren Tsai, and earlier reports involving YouTuber xooos (Hong Soo Yeon).
In each case, his agency maintained a firm stance, stating it could not confirm details about his private life. Seo-joon himself has previously acknowledged that public scrutiny makes him feel “greatly burdened” when it comes to sharing personal matters.
Career Continues to Thrive
While keeping his personal life private, Park Seo-joon’s professional journey continues to soar. He remains a fan favourite thanks to popular dramas like Hwarang: The Poet Warrior Youth, What’s Wrong With Secretary Kim, She Was Pretty, Fight for My Way, Itaewon Class, and Gyeongseong Creature.
Currently, he stars in Surely Tomorrow, further cementing his place as one of Korea’s most reliable and versatile leading men.
Final Words
Park Seo-joon’s reflections feel refreshingly honest—less about romance, and more about growth. His thoughts on marriage aren’t driven by pressure or timelines, but by curiosity about life’s deeper emotional layers.
For fans used to seeing him play charming, driven characters on screen, this glimpse into his real-world thinking offers something equally compelling: a man thoughtfully considering what happiness might look like beyond fame and success.
