Soha Ali Khan has never shied away from being candid about her personal life, and this week, she revisited one of her mother Sharmila Tagore’s most memorable pieces of advice — one that came right when Soha chose to move in with Kunal Kemmu. The veteran actress, known for her grace and old-school wisdom, had jokingly warned her daughter that Kunal “might lose interest” if they lived together before marriage.
The moment resurfaced during a new episode of Soha’s podcast, All About Her, where she appeared with Sonakshi Sinha and relationship expert Kasturi Mahanta.
A Conversation That Sparked a Throwback Moment
During the discussion, Soha reflected on her two-year live-in relationship with Kunal before they tied the knot. She revealed that her mother was initially wary of the arrangement, even teasing her with a blunt prediction.
Soha recalled, “My mother said, ‘Now he’s not going to marry you. You’ve taken away all the interest.’ And honestly, I thought — maybe she’s right.”
The actress added that marriage wasn’t exactly a priority for either of them at the time. “Kunal felt it wasn’t that important, and I felt the same. Since it wasn’t a big deal for either of us, we eventually thought we might as well get married.”
What ultimately nudged the couple toward marriage? According to Soha, her mother once again had a role to play. “My mother insisted that men need a little push — otherwise they won’t ask you to marry them,” she said with a laugh.
Sharmila Tagore’s Earlier Wisdom on Relationships
This isn’t the first time Soha has shared her mother’s relationship advice. In a previous conversation, she told The Hollywood Reporter how Sharmila emphasized the emotional balance needed between partners.
Sharmila’s philosophy was simple:
“Women should take care of a man’s ego, and a man should take care of a woman’s emotions.”
Soha admitted that while many might debate this in today’s context, the advice has helped her navigate her own long-term relationship. She added that companionship, communication, and not overloading one partner with every emotional need are key to longevity.
Soha & Kunal: A Quick Look at Their Journey
The couple first met in 2009 while filming Dhoondte Reh Jaoge and gradually developed a connection off screen. After several years of dating — and that much-talked-about live-in phase — they married in 2015. Two years later, they welcomed their daughter, Inaaya Naumi Kemmu, who often features in their heartwarming family posts.
Final Words
Soha’s candid revelations highlight the generational gap in relationship expectations — and the humor that often comes with it. With Sharmila Tagore’s classic wisdom, Kunal Kemmu’s easygoing charm, and Soha’s grounded perspective, the couple’s story continues to remain relatable and refreshingly real.
