More than a decade after Bade Achhe Lagte Hain made television history with its much-discussed on-screen kiss, the moment is back in the spotlight — this time from a deeply personal angle. Gautami Kapoor has opened up about how she reacted when husband Ram Kapoor first told her about the intimate scene with co-star Sakshi Tanwar, and why she later reflected on her response.
Speaking candidly in a recent interview, Gautami addressed Ram’s earlier comments about the scene and the controversy that followed, calling his version of events “the truth” — and saying it was widely misunderstood.
“I Banged the Phone”: Gautami on That Early Morning Call
Revisiting the moment she first heard about the scene, Gautami revealed that the call came at a particularly vulnerable time in her life. It was around 2.30 am, and she was a new mother, breastfeeding their child.
According to her, Ram called to explain what had happened on set, and her reaction was instant and emotional. Shocked and overwhelmed, she said she simply hung up on him — not wanting to process anything further in that moment.
There was no argument, no discussion. Just silence.
Reflection Came Later
What stood out in Gautami’s account wasn’t just the reaction, but what followed after. She shared that once the initial emotion settled, she took time to introspect and question whether she had reacted fairly.
She acknowledged the intense demands of television at the time — long shooting hours, exhausting schedules, and days when Ram wouldn’t come home for 24 to 48 hours straight. That context, she said, helped her reassess the situation with more empathy.
For Gautami, the moment became less about the scene itself and more about understanding the pressure her husband was under as a working actor.
Standing By Ram Kapoor’s Statement
Gautami also weighed in on the controversy that erupted after Ram spoke publicly about the scene last year. Ram had said that producer Ekta Kapoor wrote the scene and remained firm about including it, even after he expressed his reservations due to the show’s family audience.
According to Gautami, Ram didn’t lie — his words were simply taken out of context. She suggested that Ekta Kapoor’s strong reaction may have stemmed from a misunderstanding or from comments being mixed up with another situation entirely.
While addressing the issue, Gautami was careful to praise Ekta, calling her a phenomenal creator who has always been clear and confident in her vision.
The Ekta Kapoor Reaction
After Ram’s interview made headlines, Ekta Kapoor had posted a sharp message on social media, criticising unnamed actors for giving what she described as skewed or false narratives about her shows. Though she didn’t name Ram, the timing made the connection obvious.
The post added fuel to an already sensitive discussion around professionalism, creative decisions, and how much of behind-the-scenes reality should be spoken about publicly.
Why That Scene Mattered
The kiss between Ram Kapoor and Sakshi Tanwar in Bade Achhe Lagte Hain wasn’t just another TV moment — it was unprecedented at the time. The show, which premiered in 2011, was watched by families across generations, and the scene sparked intense debate across the country.
Despite the backlash, the show remained hugely popular, and Ram and Sakshi’s pairing as Ram and Priya became one of Indian television’s most beloved couples.
Final Words
Gautami Kapoor’s reflections add nuance to a moment that has often been discussed only in headlines and controversies. Her honesty highlights the emotional side of being a partner to an actor — where personal feelings, professional obligations, and public scrutiny collide.
Years later, the scene still invites conversation — not because of shock value anymore, but because of the human stories behind it.
