Parenting isn’t always picture-perfect, and Kajol is not pretending otherwise. In a candid conversation on Lilly Singh’s podcast, the actor spoke honestly about her relationship with daughter Nysa Devgan, revealing that there was a phase when things were far from smooth. It wasn’t just the usual teenage disagreements — she admitted it was a period of constant friction that lasted nearly three years.
Kajol shared that things began to change when Nysa hit her early teens. Around the age of 12, emotions ran high on both sides, and conversations often turned into arguments. She described that phase as chaotic, where both mother and daughter were reacting more emotionally than logically. It wasn’t a one-sided struggle either — both of them resisted understanding each other, and communication almost broke down at times.
What’s interesting is how Kajol chose to handle it eventually. Instead of continuing the cycle of arguments, she consciously stepped back and tried to approach things differently. She decided to reduce confrontation and focus more on talking things through, even if it meant repeating herself or waiting for Nysa to respond. That shift didn’t fix things overnight, but it slowly started changing the dynamic between them.
The biggest turning point, according to Kajol, came when she realized she was talking more than she was listening. That’s when things clicked. She said that simply sitting down and giving Nysa space to express herself — without interrupting or correcting — made the biggest difference. It sounds simple, but in reality, that kind of patience isn’t always easy, especially during tense phases.
Now, things seem much more settled between them. Nysa, who recently turned 23, shares a warmer, more comfortable relationship with her mother. Kajol even marked her birthday with a heartfelt message, calling her a blessing and expressing how deeply she values her. It’s a reminder that even difficult phases can evolve into stronger bonds over time.
Kajol has also made it clear in the past that Nysa isn’t interested in joining films, despite being part of a family where both her parents — Kajol and Ajay Devgn — are major names in the industry. That decision itself reflects a different kind of upbringing, where choice and individuality seem to matter more than legacy.
On the work front, Kajol has been quite active. She was last seen in films like Maa and Sarzameen, both of which interestingly revolved around her playing protective maternal roles. She also explored a different format with the talk show Two Much with Kajol and Twinkle, alongside Twinkle Khanna, and returned with Season 2 of The Trial. Up next, she’s set to appear in Maharagni: Queen of Queens, which promises a more action-driven space.
What makes her recent comments stand out is how real they feel. There’s no attempt to make parenting sound easy or ideal. Instead, it’s about trial, error, and learning along the way — something a lot of parents might quietly relate to, even if they don’t always talk about it openly.
